There is a small (really large) club of people who share a few thoughts. You might be in the club if you have ever said any of the following; “You said you would start tomorrow yesterday”, “I can’t launch or produce something because its not perfect”, or how about “After this degree, class, certificate I will be ready to reach my goals”? Any of those sound like you? Well you my friend our in the club of self sabotagers. I know self sabotage can sound like its really bad and that you somehow are defective but here’s the truth. In a lot of ways these beliefs and behaviors have protected you, they have been drivers to achieve new goals amongst other things. But…. Like anything too much self sabotage gets in the way and stops you from reaching your goals and feeling good about yourself and your accomplishments.